I jus heard a complain from a fren. Been hearing it for very long liao. Jus tot i could share it with you guys. Made me think a bit.
My fren is called A lah and her sister is called B. The two of them used to be very very close until it got to a point in time when B started to be too busy to spend time with A. A started to look for new company and gradually they drifted apart.
B is a very nice girl and dotes a lot on A. But the big problem with B is that she has a very bad temper. She thinks that the whole world owes her something. Always pick a fight with A over the smallest thing.
My fren has always thought that the real reason why her sister keep fighting with her was because her sister is jealous of her. Since young, A has always been the high achiever in school. She went to a good secondary school(top 10), a good JC(top 5) and went on to pursue a degree. In terms of other stuff, A is better than her sister in a way. Like A is highly involved with her CCA and held an impt appointment and A has a stable and long relationship. On the other hand, B do not perform as well academically. But B is good in other stuff like languages and cooking etc. And her last relationship was a big blow to her and B has yet to overcome it till today.
Whenever they quarrel, B always like to say things like "Go good school very big deal lah" and "Got degree very liao3 bu4 qi3 lah" when it has nothing to do with wat they are arguing about. A always get very irritated when her sister starts to bring up such things. She thinks that her sister still blame her mother for not letting her take higher chinese in pri sch. B thinks that if her mum had allowed her to take then her life will be much better now. She held so much resentment that she is such a grumpy and inconsiderate girl. B likes to think that A is spoilt and always want things her way by arguing her way out.
There have been many times when B caused A to argue with her bf. Coz her bf dun like ppl to interrupt when he is talking and B always like to pick a fight with A in the middle of her conversation. Den when they started quarelling and A blamed B for it, B jus said like "My fault ah?"
Sigh... after having heard so many times from my fren.. i can memorise liao lah...
Anyway, i was jus thinkg what i will actually do if my sister is jealous of me. My sister sounds like her sister. But i really think that its very sad that a sister should be jealous of her own sister. She should be proud of her instead leh. Why should there be jealousy? sigh.. women...
anyway, i m leaving for M'sia for a few days of nomad life. Will be back on 19th and will update you guys regarding the camp..
My fren is called A lah and her sister is called B. The two of them used to be very very close until it got to a point in time when B started to be too busy to spend time with A. A started to look for new company and gradually they drifted apart.
B is a very nice girl and dotes a lot on A. But the big problem with B is that she has a very bad temper. She thinks that the whole world owes her something. Always pick a fight with A over the smallest thing.
My fren has always thought that the real reason why her sister keep fighting with her was because her sister is jealous of her. Since young, A has always been the high achiever in school. She went to a good secondary school(top 10), a good JC(top 5) and went on to pursue a degree. In terms of other stuff, A is better than her sister in a way. Like A is highly involved with her CCA and held an impt appointment and A has a stable and long relationship. On the other hand, B do not perform as well academically. But B is good in other stuff like languages and cooking etc. And her last relationship was a big blow to her and B has yet to overcome it till today.
Whenever they quarrel, B always like to say things like "Go good school very big deal lah" and "Got degree very liao3 bu4 qi3 lah" when it has nothing to do with wat they are arguing about. A always get very irritated when her sister starts to bring up such things. She thinks that her sister still blame her mother for not letting her take higher chinese in pri sch. B thinks that if her mum had allowed her to take then her life will be much better now. She held so much resentment that she is such a grumpy and inconsiderate girl. B likes to think that A is spoilt and always want things her way by arguing her way out.
There have been many times when B caused A to argue with her bf. Coz her bf dun like ppl to interrupt when he is talking and B always like to pick a fight with A in the middle of her conversation. Den when they started quarelling and A blamed B for it, B jus said like "My fault ah?"
Sigh... after having heard so many times from my fren.. i can memorise liao lah...
Anyway, i was jus thinkg what i will actually do if my sister is jealous of me. My sister sounds like her sister. But i really think that its very sad that a sister should be jealous of her own sister. She should be proud of her instead leh. Why should there be jealousy? sigh.. women...
anyway, i m leaving for M'sia for a few days of nomad life. Will be back on 19th and will update you guys regarding the camp..
1 comment:
hmm can relate to dis story.. jus dat in my case its eben worse ba... cos e last time i had a heart-to-heart talk wif my sis was when i was in pri 6 ba.. hmm dat was like 8 years le ba.. we haf drifted apart ever since we went to different sec sch n leadin totally different lives meeting different ppl..
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